The issue of sexual performance
In today's love relationships, it is very important for the couple to feel good mutual harmony , and that must include sexuality. A happy couple is a couple who must get along well in bed, who only know intense and successful moments in their sexuality. However, not everything can always be rosy in a sexuality, and the couple inevitably experiences moments of "less well", because the human is not programmed to be efficient all the time , nor in the mood to have a perfect sexual relationship, let alone always in perfect harmony with his or her partner.
As a result, 2 out of 3 women admit having already simulated an orgasm during sexual intercourse. This high percentage is a response to this pressure exerted on the couple , where the woman takes the responsibility of hiding a bad harmony which could mean that an alchemy would not be able to be created in the couple, and that it would harm their happiness. and their balance.
In reality, what harms the couple is the lack of communication between the two partners and the social pressure they experience. The best thing is to talk about these moments of "less well" , to make the one who does not manage to enjoy and the one who enjoys faster than the other feel guilty.
The ignorance of his body
The eroticization of one's own body through masturbation and self-discovery is essential for fulfillment in a sexual relationship with a partner. It is also essential to get to know each other and know what you like and what you don't like.
In some women, the fact of not having explored themselves sexually can prevent them from guiding their partner , and can prevent their partner from accompanying them towards the rise of orgasm.
From childhood, the relationship that men and women have with their sex is very different . The young girl does not dare to uncover herself and may feel ashamed of her vulva and her desire for pleasure, where the man has no trouble discovering himself much earlier than her.
At the time of sexual intercourse, if on one side or the other the relationship with one's own body is difficult, then bodily communication between the two partners may not be clear: this "bad connection", this misunderstanding does not allow not up to the couple to achieve fully shared pleasure.
When penetration has the monopoly of pleasure
Pleasure in sexuality is based on penetration and very much depends on the male orgasm. For a sexual relationship to be successful, the man must cum, and if the woman doesn't cum, it's not a big deal. We have no problem accepting it.
Another concern that leads to the orgasmic gap is clitoral stimulation left on the foreplay bench . What may be considered an appetizer by some, is actually the main course for some. Clitoral stimulation , yet an essential key to female pleasure and female orgasm, is too neglected at the time of the act monopolized by the pleasure of penetration.
