MAKING LOVE DURING YOUR PERIOD: FROM “DIRTY AND INAPPROPRIATE” TABOO TO FULLY ACCEPTED PLEASURE

Making love during your period: a taboo and complex subject, one that still provokes raised eyebrows, awkward silences, wry smiles, and mocking laughter. What if we dared to try it, without judgment, just once, or at the very least, talk about it frankly. Not in whispers, not half-heartedly, and certainly not by avoiding the uncomfortable words or blushing faces. Because that's how unfounded taboos, like this one, are born.

What if periods were an opportunity to explore pleasure differently? Because blood is proof that your body is alive, powerful, and vibrant. So, if you want to love, to love yourself, or simply to explore... do it. Without shame. Without excuses. With passion, as always. Because menstruation is not a barrier to intimacy. Because desire follows no calendar, no scheduled interruption. With the French brand of menstrual cups and discs Luneale , we invite you to discover this moment of the cycle in a different light: that of freedom, comfort, and unashamed desire.

Why do periods make intimacy scary? Is it risky to have sex without a condom during your period? Can sex be a remedy to relieve menstrual pain? What period protection should you use, and what intimate cosmetics should you use to make love during your period with ease? These are all questions we rarely dare to ask, and we're going to discuss them together. Because red is the color of love... and the color of pleasure.

Why do menstrual periods make people afraid of intimacy and sexuality?

Why do menstrual periods make people afraid of intimacy and sexuality?

"You shall not approach a woman during her menstrual impurity to uncover her nakedness." Yes, this phrase does indeed correspond to a passage in the Bible, more precisely in the Old Testament, in the book of Leviticus, chapter 18, verse 19. For centuries, menstrual blood has carried the weight of an ancient and deeply rooted fear in our culture and religions. Considered impure, even evil, this sexual practice has been surrounded by silence, exclusion, and taboos. Yet, this blood is nothing more than a natural manifestation of the body's functioning, the living testimony of a cycle that follows its own rhythm. Historically, this negative view also has its roots in archaic beliefs, such as that of the spiritualist Hermann Lobotoé, who saw in menstruating women a source of spiritual power capable of absorbing the energies of the men around them. In the Middle Ages, menstrual blood was even linked to witchcraft and a feared form of love magic. These weighty and ancestral images have left a lasting mark on our social representations.

In intimacy, this symbolic charge translates into a palpable apprehension: fear of the stain, the smell, the gaze of the other , or simply discomfort and disgust. Yet, far from these beliefs, science and common sense confirm that there is no medical contraindication to making love during menstruation. It is above all a space for exchange, respect for rhythms and communication between partners. Menstrual blood, long demonized, is in reality a bodily fluid like any other. Neither dirty nor dangerous.

Knowing how to welcome it, or at least no longer fear it, is taking a step toward self-acceptance and opening the door to another form of eroticism: more sincere, slower, deeper. It is in this liberation from myths that sexuality can truly flourish, beyond taboos. If you want to know more about the different sexual fluids that submerge your body, it's this way: " Cyprine, sperm, fountain emission, we decipher the language of the body together."
Contrary to popular belief, it's perfectly fine to have cunnilingus during your period . After all, blood doesn't come out of the clitoris , right? There are many misconceptions surrounding sex during menstruation, so remember this: Yes, it's possible to get pregnant during this time, so protection is recommended. Yes, your vulnerability to STIs is a little higher, hence the importance of condoms. No, it's neither dirty nor dangerous to have sex during your period; on the contrary, it can even make you feel better!


Three Little-Known Benefits of Menstrual Pleasure

Desire doesn't wait. It emerges, slips into a breath, a look, a whisper, a word. It doesn't settle at the end of a bleeding period, doesn't stop on a specific date. For many menstruating people, their period is a unique interlude: the body becomes more receptive, sensations more intense, desires more fluid... sometimes crossed by waves of pain or minor intimate discomforts. A delicate moment, to be tamed with gentleness, respect, and sensuality. One might think that libido is at a low ebb during their period, but this isn't always the case. Some experience these days like a cocoon to be inhabited slowly. Others like a hormonal surge, an urgent need to be touched, loved, desired. Everyone has their own pace and desires.

According to a study conducted by the Association of Reproductive Health Professionals, 62% of women feel like having sex during their period. This is explained by the secretion of a hormone produced by the ovaries and adrenal glands: testosterone , which is produced just before menstruation.

Long relegated to second place, sex during menstruation continues to be divisive. But beyond cultural representations, religious prohibitions, or personal comfort, everything invites us to take a different look at this time of the cycle. Because yes, making love during your period can also be beneficial for the body. We explain why:


Sex, a natural remedy for menstrual pain

It's a truth that's too little said: orgasm provides relief. It releases endorphins, dopamine, oxytocin, substances that calm pain, relax uterine muscles, and ease tension. Pleasure, alone or with a partner, then becomes a form of care, a gentle way of telling your body: I'm listening, I'm soothing you, I love you. Because period pain, or dysmenorrhea , affects many menstruating people. The cause: prostaglandins, substances that cause uterine contractions responsible for cramps. This pain can be very severe, even disabling, and can also be accompanied by nausea, fatigue, or lower back pain. These sensations are not very sexy or pleasant. For some, periods are a challenge. And there's no question of adding sexual pressure to it. Each person should therefore be able to freely choose: explore, wait, welcome, or isolate themselves. No shame. No pressure. No standards to follow.

If you're feeling naughty, know that by stimulating erogenous zones (alone or with a partner), you can also distract the brain from pain, while activating positive physiological responses. It would certainly be dishonest to say that pleasure alone is enough to erase all menstrual pain, but knowing that orgasm can be an ally, a treatment, a balm... is already a revolution.


Sometimes shorter periods

Even less well-known: the impact of sexual intercourse on the length of the menstrual cycle. During orgasm, muscle contractions promote faster expulsion of blood. As a result, periods may be slightly shorter than usual, especially when intercourse occurs at the very beginning of the cycle. Of course, every body reacts differently. But several studies and testimonies converge: sexual activity during menstruation could, in some cases, accelerate the natural elimination process.

Increased bodily sensitivity

The menstrual cycle changes hormone levels , but also sensory perception. Many women report feeling more sensitive, more receptive to caresses , more in tune with their bodies during their periods. A reality that transforms pleasure into a more intense, more immediate, sometimes even more visceral experience. Making love during this period therefore also means opening yourself up to another form of sexuality, often more instinctive, more connected to raw sensations. It goes without saying: it is not about making sex during menstruation a norm to follow , but rather to propose a new reading of the menstrual cycle , less marked by embarrassment or discomfort, and more centered on listening to the body. Because desire is not suspended by a calendar. It is lived, with freedom and curiosity. If you feel the urge to explore this part of you during your period, know that it is legitimate, healthy and potentially beneficial. And if it is not the right time for you? That is just as valid. What matters is being able to choose.



Say goodbye to menstrual cramps!

Say goodbye to menstrual cramps!

90% of women recommend masturbation
against period pain.


70% of women believe that regular masturbation
has an impact on the intensity of menstrual pain.


61% of women believe that regular masturbation
has an impact on the length of the menstrual cycle.


Source: Womanizer x Lunacopine x INTIMINA Study



Assumed Pleasure: the YESforLOV Selection for experiencing your period differently

What hygienic protection and tips should you adopt for free and joyful menstrual sexuality?

What hygienic protection and tips should you adopt for free and joyful menstrual sexuality?

There are no rules for having sex during your period (other than respect). But some practical questions may arise.
 Where? How? In what position and with what sanitary protection? Here are some tips and tricks for exploring this intimate experience with complete peace of mind.


Menstrual panties for cuddles without penetration

Periods are an invitation to rediscover pleasure in a different way. It's the perfect time to step away from penetration for a moment and open yourself up to caresses, tender embraces, and sensory play. Menstrual panties or sanitary pads aren't made for penetration, but they can perfectly complement these moments of shared tenderness.

Here is our "guaranteed peace of mind" program:

Make yourself comfortable on a bed protected by a dark towel or a blanket placed on a rug.

Create a subdued, warm atmosphere with a few candles and the LOV'space fragrance diffuser. for a delicate fragrance that envelops your body, drawing you into a sensual cocoon.

Dare to try the intoxicating intimate mist, the scent of body and intimacy that makes hearts beat faster and stirs desire.

And suddenly, the whole world of slow sex opens up to you.

To go further, discover our article “SLOW SEX, FOR GENTLE PLEASURE WITH COMPLETE CONSCIOUSNESS” and let yourself be guided towards a more peaceful and sensual intimacy.

And for even more serenity, you can also indulge in a shower for two and an aquasutra session. The warm water soothes, relaxes, and becomes an accomplice to your desires. Simple and without constraints, making love in the shower during your period can also be an ode to freedom and shared pleasure.


Tampons: a classic option, with ecological and health limitations to be aware of

Tampons remain a familiar, discreet, and practical solution, easy to insert and remove, and often offering reassuring protection for users. However, they are not always suitable for all women, particularly in cases of vaginal dryness or increased sensitivity during these intimate moments. Choosing a tampon adapted to your flow and changing it regularly is essential to maintain your health and avoid any risk of infection or toxic shock syndrome. But beyond comfort, a bigger question arises: what impact do they really have on our bodies... and on our planet? Every year, billions of disposable tampons that are difficult to recycle and difficult to manage for the environment pile up in our landfills.They often contain chemicals, such as chlorine bleaches , which pollute water and weaken aquatic ecosystems. Even more worrying, a survey by 60 Million Consumers revealed the presence of traces of dioxins—among the most dangerous pollutants in the world according to the WHO—as well as other chemical residues linked to the processing of raw materials. At YESforLOV, we have chosen to guide you towards gentler alternatives that respect your body and nature. This is why we favor organic tampons or protection designed for your well-being, such as Lunar menstrual cups . An invitation to reconnect with yourself, gently and consciously.

Finally, one last piece of advice: remember to remove your tampon before any penetrative sexual act.


Menstrual discs and sponges: the game changers compatible with penetration

Have you ever explored the delicacy of the menstrual disc? Menstrual discs are all about discretion and pleasure. Placed higher than the cup, they provide effective protection while remaining invisible, giving you total freedom during intimate relations. At YESforLOV, our favorite is the disc. MoonDrop, from the French brand Lunéale : its ultra-thin membrane offers imperceptible comfort for periods and sex without compromise. Made with surgical silicone, it guarantees softness and safety, without any additives, colorants, or nanoparticles. To slide this little marvel in effortlessly, a dab of organic aloe vera intimate lubricant will be your ally.
Less well-known, but just as attractive, the menstrual sponge is gently placed in front of the cervix. Its extraction is done gently, preferably in a squatting position, revealing an intimate ritual imbued with gentleness and a little practice. More subtle to master, it requires special care to maintain perfect hygiene. The Soft Coton brand , with its box of 10, promises powerful absorbency and unfailing reliability. If you have already succumbed to the softness of these intimate allies, send us your impressions at contact@yesforlov.com . Your experience fuels our desire to support you even better.

During your period, more than ever, we listen to ourselves. Comfort becomes the watchword, and tenderness, a royal road to pleasure. Favor gentle and enveloping sexual positions , like spooning, where bodies curl up against each other, or missionary , for an intimate, slow, and deep connection. These moments invite you to slow down and feel differently.


The menstrual cup: a no, but not an end in itself

As ecological and practical as it is, the menstrual cup is unfortunately not compatible with penetration . But don't let that stop you: sexuality doesn't stop at one path. It's often an opportunity to explore other forms of pleasure: oral or anal play, prolonged caresses, sensory experiences with sensual massage oils , a caressing feather or even the use of vibrating sex toys . The absence of penetration sometimes opens the door to another dimension of intimacy, more tender, more conscious. Making love during menstruation should never be an obligation, but a freely chosen possibility, a bubble of complicity to savor together.

To accompany these moments, our natural lubricant YESforLOV , soft and moisturizing, is a precious ally. It respects the skin and mucous membranes, and offers ideal fluidity when natural lubrication varies.

Looking for the perfect menstrual cup? Let yourself be seduced by La Cup Luneale, the elegance of invisible protection. This menstrual cup was designed in collaboration with midwives to delicately hug your curves, without ever being felt, even on your most active days. Its innovative design makes it easy to insert and remove, for a gentle intimate experience, even with an IUD. Made of platinum medical silicone, without dyes or additives, it fully respects your body and your environment, for an experience that is both pure and responsible. Whether you are in the middle of a yoga session, in a meeting, or on a romantic getaway,   The Luneale menstrual cup accompanies you with elegance and serenity for up to 6 hours at a time. Adopting it means choosing a free, refined, and committed femininity. And that, at YESforLOV, speaks to us... it speaks to us a lot.

What if loving during your period became an art?

What if, now, after devouring this article, we looked at periods differently? No longer as a pause, but as another facet of our intimacy. A time of slower, deeper, more truthful exploration. Blood is not a barrier. It is a possibility. It invites tenderness, listening, and inventiveness. Making love during your period is not a provocation. It is a right. The right to fully inhabit your body, to love in time with your cycle, to open other doors to pleasure. YESforLOV and Luneale share this conviction: that intimacy is an art. An art that is written by two people, or alone. An art that always begins with listening to yourself. So, dare. Slow down. Feel. And love... in your own way, only if it pleases and enchants you. Because the most important thing is to be there, together, without pressure.