Did you know ? One in two women experiences and encounters difficulties in reaching orgasm. Daily monotony, sexual routine, physical fatigue, low libido, hormonal upheaval or clumsy partner, the dangers are indeed there, waiting for the slightest failure. Regardless of your education or your sexual orientation, your age or your romantic situation, many factors will alter your love life and your sexuality that you wish so harmoniously. Whether it's a temporary or prolonged drop in your libido, pain during penetration or a lack of desire, credible solutions exist to help you find a sexuality that lives up to your desires to love. The rebirth of your sexuality must be your priority objective in this fight, a step to be taken and consolidated over time to reach the highest peaks of the pleasures of sex. In this article, YESforLOV gives you the keys to help you find the arousal gel that will contribute naturally and for the best of your life as a woman to give a boost to the vitality and richness of your sex life . How to choose your orgasmic gel? What to expect? How does a clitoral gel work?



Not enjoying with your partner is not so strange , it has even become common practice for a good number of women in France, around 50% of them according to the various studies available on the web. Quite a few philosophers, psychologists and other psychiatrists have looked into the natural phenomenon of orgasm, which is rather complex to decipher and understand. Neuroscience has gotten involved more recently to put the brain at the epicenter of the sexual response to orgasm . So what should we learn from these years of research? To achieve orgasm, you have to go through four stages : the desire phase, the excitement phase, the plateau and finally the orgasm . During the plateau phase, arousal is very strong but then we need an additional stimulus to push ourselves and thus reach orgasm. Sometimes it might be an orgasmic gel that we need and for others it might be a sweet word, a bit of dirty talk or a carnal smell. Understanding your arousal process is a crucial element for your sexuality since with it comes the enjoyment of pleasures that can take you to orgasm. Here, it is a question of understanding in a few lines its arousal mechanism in order to better understand the effectiveness of orgasmic gels and find solutions to amplify your arousal.

Arousal in people with vulvas (and it's the same thing in people with penises) is a complex phenomenon which is caused by:

- Physical stimulation : a look like no other, a daring caress on the hollow of the thighs, a fiery kiss on the neck...

- Sensory stimulations : a new sound, a warmer smell, a sensation that changes everything...
- Psychological stimulations : a mood to improve, a state of mind to change, a lack of self - esteem to erase...
- Emotional stimulations : a particular situation to manage, a loving feeling to share, a happy memory to remember wisely...

These external stimulations caused voluntarily or involuntarily will cause the brain to react, which will instantly send messages to the entire body and particularly to the genital areas . These signals will immediately flood the erectile bodies . Richly vascularized, these will accelerate the flow of blood in women to the clitoris which will become erect and become more and more sensitive. So, the brain at the heart of female pleasure? Without a doubt ! Erotic stimulation from wherever it comes triggers an immediate reaction in the woman's brain which sends an incredible " reflex message " that travels through the entire spine. What follows is a series of more or less well-controlled rhythmic contractions. At the end of the pleasure, a simple reflex reaction but maximum orgasmic excitement. Enriching for you to learn that your partner has an orgasmic brain : to take into account for the future of your relationships!

In people with vulvas, it is excitation which gives rise to this influx of blood into the vagina and vulva and which is responsible for vaginal lubrication , erection of the clitoris and vulvar hyperemia. Each person responds as best they can and with their means to the various stimuli . She does it according to her sensitivity, her availability, her education, her experiences and her fears. What excites one person can leave another cold, or even put them off. It's magnificent, and that's what's most brilliant about this art and this loving desire to be able to go into full complicity to discover each other.

There is no normality and banality in excitement : it's up to the wildest fantasies to disrupt this very monotonous routine to live. There is no universal or miracle recipe that we could pass from mother to daughter or swap between girlfriends and boyfriends. Moreover , the effectiveness of each stimulus can vary in the same woman depending on the situation: what was intensely alluring and terribly arousing one day may have less effect or even no effect at all at another time with the same partner or not. Female arousal obviously has a “mechanical” component but it is also linked to a physical and psychological component . Fatigue, daily concerns, too intense stress, grief, shame, temporary anger, the partner's inability to meet spoken or unspoken expectations and many other factors can compromise or even eliminate any sexual excitement that yet just waiting to be unleashed. Excitement therefore rests on a fragile balance : it is a clever mixture involving the participation of all the senses, emotional and physical factors to which must be added the imagination in the atmosphere of sex. It is the body in its entirety, and not just its intimate areas, which needs to be bathed, cajoled in good eroticism. Once the excitement reaches its peak, she enters a sort of modified consciousness, a second state, which can explain her passionate or even uninhibited behavior during orgasm. It is thanks to these moments of letting go that she manages to evolve in her sexuality .

What we must remember from this chapter is that the female orgasm is a complex neuro-psycho-physiological process usually marking the highest degree of the most beautiful sexual response. And as we can see, there are a thousand and one ways to amplify excitability and a whole range of stimuli at our fingertips just waiting to be used for the greatest happiness of our sexuality.

Orgasmic gels, what are they?

An arousal gel , also called orgasmic gel among our aficionados, is a product that contains a cosmetic formula to be applied directly to the erogenous parts such as the clitoris or the penis in order to increase desire and amplify the senses .

These women's stimulating gels are sold in pharmacies and drugstores, in sex shops and specialized well-being shops. There is a whole range of orgasmic gels for people with vulva. Some of them stimulate the glans clitoris   and others the G-spot. You can even get CBD-based lubricating gels for a liberating and very pleasant letting go.



In recent years, new concepts of stimulating intimate gels have appeared with varying degrees of success. Orgasmic gels supposed to stimulate erogenous genital zones and intensify pleasure are now flooding the shelves of hypermarkets and sex shops. What is it in reality? How do stimulating gels for women work and act? How to use them and are they really effective? Benoit, our product manager tells you more about the benefits and benefits of stimulating gels for women.

How do arousal gels work and act?

As explained at the beginning of the article, there are several ways to amplify sexual arousal and stimulate the erogenous zones in your romantic relationship. Orgasmic gels work and act as stimuli on several levels :

- On a sensory level: These exciting gels are warming, refreshing or also cause delicious vibration sensations . Thanks to their particular composition, they bring an astonishing sensation of hot or cold where your love games are really played. The best of them bring you sensations more intense than usual and never felt before to the point of taking you to tremendous orgasms . Whether external or internal stimulation, this surprising sensation of hot and/or cold, both striking and new, is supposed to stimulate the sensory sensors of the clitoris . Exploring the clitoris is worth a detour in your quest for ultimate pleasure. We start slowly externally with his glans and his little hood because behind this screen of formidable eroticism, a real iceberg lives intensely and it is far from being made of ice. Inside, it's a set of incredible nerve endings, erectile bodies, muscles and ligaments that move in all directions as long as the excitement is equal to the event. The vagina is the nice neighbor of this extraordinary clitoris: 4,000 sensory receptors on each side of the clitoris, and 8,000 at its tip. You will also find in the range of stimulating gels vibrating gels for the clitoris made from plants from the Amazon . And for the most greedy among you, know that the majority of stimulating gels are cataloged as “kissable” and can therefore perfectly be part of your practices as accomplices of totally shared oral sex .

- On a psychological level: These arousal gels are companions of pleasure in your sexual relationship: they are there to reassure you , so that you gain confidence in yourself , before taking increasingly daring initiatives in your sex games. love. They are designed so that you finally let go and make the most of these magical and unique moments. Using these stimulating gels is a way full of eroticism to treat yourself to a moment of well-being which, psychologically speaking, brings you to a state of confidence and relaxation both in your body and in your mind. Some of these gels also contain CBD , a molecule which greatly promotes letting go and effectively helps you empty your brain of all these sexual anxieties which pollute your sexuality as the stress of performance can sneakily do for some. the fear of not being able to enjoy for others.

- On a physical level: These orgasmic gels contain active ingredients which will facilitate lubrication by moistening the erogenous zones and calming the unpleasant sensations of heating caused by friction. They therefore provide you with much better comfort in your long sex sessions while being omnipresent in the gradual rise of excitement and in this madly pleasant desire to make good love.

- On a mechanical level: These orgasmic gels contain active ingredients such as L-arginine . It is from arginine that the human body produces nitric oxide, a substance that promotes the dilation of blood vessels. L-Argine will therefore potentially help to vascularize the erogenous zone to increase pleasure tenfold at time T and time X.

What do arousal gels contain?

In the YESforLOV range of female sexual stimulants, you will find only natural products designed with respect for your mucous membranes and the planet . Our stimulating and aphrodisiac gels contain quality cosmetic active ingredients. Everything is tested and clinically proven to offer you maximum comfort and pleasure . Concerning the star active ingredients present in our excitation gels, we could cite among others:

- Arginine whose properties help improve vaginal circulation and stimulate the perivascular nerves.
- Ginseng extracts , whose properties help stimulate desire.
- Kigeline extracts , whose properties help limit vaginal relaxation and distended and weakened tissues. These extracts have a "tensifying" effect which will lead to the production of collagen fibers and which will increase vulvar and vaginal tone.

- Rose extracts or CBD , whose properties contribute to the feeling of letting go and reduce sexual pain.
- Peppermint , whose properties help improve blood flow and sharpen desire in a sensation of hot and cold.
- Brede mafane , a rare plant from the Amazon known for its warm and vibrant effect which accompanies you crescendo towards dazzling orgasms.

How to use a pleasure gel?

To use them, nothing could be simpler, all you need to do is apply 1 to 2 drops of gel directly to the area then massage gently , sensually, delicately. No need to add as much as a lubricating gel, a small dose will be enough to sharpen desire, embark your desire to make love, with a vibrant sensation of hot and cold. To masturbate or to stimulate your lovemaking, your tube of sexual stimulant will be the perfect companion. It can be used with or without external help, solo or in a duo, with or without the use of a sex toy.

These intimate gels are often compatible with condoms and are designed to be in contact with the mucous membranes, so they are normally tested under gynecological control beforehand. This is the case for all YESforLOV male or female stimulating gels. You can also use them in conjunction with a sex toy like the Coco clitoral stimulator from Puissante . We guarantee you maximum sensations with this amazing duo.

What should you expect?

These “special female pleasure” gels are supposed to facilitate orgasm , but they do not work miracles: you can use them, it is even strongly recommended, but let it be clear in your mind, the orgasm will not occur. does not trigger on command , you also have to go get it with the precious and effective help or not of your partner. So yes ! A meeting often missed but a meeting of sexual madness just as much. Everything is possible in the adventures of sex and the Grail can indeed reach out to you at the end of your path. Let's remember that orgasm depends a lot on your mood at the moment, on your willingness or not to let yourself go and fully enjoy the pleasures of sex. A little stress, even acute and occasional, but no more. These gels in their entirety work and act correctly but without working miracles: they add a pinch of erotic salt to the excitement of the moment by amplifying the usual much less strong sensations . Thanks to its hot/cold, vasodilator action and enhanced with vibration effects , the standard formula of the intimate gel accentuates the sensitivity of the erogenous zones , then promotes and intensifies female and male orgasm .



Our range of YESforLOV sexual stimulants is there to accompany you throughout your adventures and your love stories. Our orgasmic gels are developed to offer the choice and the opportunity to obtain maximum pleasures at the heart of their sexuality internally and externally. They are therefore dedicated to all people who want to enjoy and love (and love themselves solo) in complete freedom and impunity, to all those who want to fully experience the pleasures of personal female ejaculation , to all those who are simply looking for to sharpen their desire for sex, but also to restore female excitement to try to experience multiple orgasms of rare intensity. So, which YESforLOV sexual stimulant to choose? Which one suits you best? A brief overview of our range of sexual stimulants for women. You will have a choice of 4 excellent quality products that are just waiting to be tried:

- A mixed vibrating orgasmic gel: Latest novelty from YESforLOV, this mixed arousal gel is suitable for both men and women, since it offers, exactly where you want to feel it, a sensation of vibration to intensify arousal and participate in the rise to orgasm . This gel to excite each of your erogenous zones is formulated with 94% ingredients of natural origin , and enriched with active extracts of Amazonian plants, notablymafane brede known for its relaxing and vasodilatory properties , as well as for vibrations. , the tingling and pulsing it provides. Ideal to use for solitary pleasures as well as for penetration, this vibrating effect gel also invites tasting with its delicious kiwi taste .

- A stimulating gel for the clitoris : This soft and natural clitoral arousal gel has been specifically formulated to amplify and prolong the intensity of orgasms caused by stimulation of the lips and glans of the clitoris. For people who have difficulty reaching orgasm with external stimulation and those who always want more, this natural clitoris gel will be a perfect companion to make you vibrate with pleasure and offer you even more intense orgasms. The little extra: its terribly aphrodisiac formula is made up of more than 96% ingredients of natural origin .

- A stimulating gel for the G-spot: More powerful than its counterpart, this vaginal arousal gel acts feverishly at the heart of arousal by promoting loving embrace and stimulating the vaginal walls and the G-spot to provoke powerful, deep and diffuse orgasms . This G-spot stimulating cream based on natural ingredients contains a mixture of natural cosmetic active ingredients which triggers a sensation of hot and cold while accelerating the dilation and stimulation of the clitoral-urethro-vaginal complex.

- A CBD Concentrate: A few drops of this concentrate of pleasure will be enough to take you towards a soaring and liberated sexuality . This erotic serum contains a high content of cannabinoids and L-arginine to offer you even more pleasure and comfort . This stimulating gel acts as a sensuality booster , a well-being shot which will free the body from your constraints (stress, anxieties, discomfort, reduced libido) and allow you to achieve intense and completely uninhibited orgasms . CBD effectively fights against stress and anxiety and this is good, our YESforLOV CBD concentrate has been formulated to amplify your sexual desires and increase your sensations tenfold . It naturally disinhibits the body and mind to encourage letting go and allow you to experience liberated, soaring and uninhibited sexuality.

6 good reasons to try our orgasmic gels

1. To discover new sexual sensations and these effects of hot cold or hyper stimulating vibrations. It's a new experience to discover for only €1 with our sample of clitoral arousal gel.

2. To help you strengthen your loving embrace and gradually accompany the build-up of excitement.

3. To calm the sensations of friction and heating during stimulation of the clitoris and G-spot.

4. Because maybe it’s the little stimulus you were missing !

5. Because they are composed of 88% (that for the G spot), 94% (for the vibrating orgasmic gel), 97% (that for the clitoris) and 99.49% (for the concentrate of CBD) from ingredients of natural origin .

6. For their little peppermint or kiwi taste which invites tasting.

The paths that lead to the female orgasm are not as tortuous as we would like to say wrongly and through even if they are too often polluted by personal difficulties that are intimate. It 's up to you to seek out this coveted orgasm with your privileged partner. Discover the sensations that arousal gels can offer you: you will take a lot of pleasure in its entirety using them and you will put all the chances on your side. In this momentum full of beautiful promises, a healthy lifestyle is essential, punctuated by sustained and regular physical activity, without forgetting all those little daily attentions that make hearts beat faster. If your sexual health still proves to be just as negative and YESforLOV sexual stimulants and other stimuli ultimately have no effect on you, you are strongly recommended to consult a health professional, who will look for the causes of your difficulties and the origin of your your troubles before finding the right words to find the right medical treatment.