Aquasutra: the complete guide to making love in water

Some settings inspire our desires and fantasies more than others: an infinity pool, a beach with turquoise waters, a hotel shower, a bubbling jacuzzi… Water, in all its forms, blurs boundaries and ignites fantasies. It encourages encounters, cools excited bodies, and multiplies excitement, until our libidinometer reaches its highest level.

Making love in water isn't just a fleeting summer fad: it's one of the most common fantasies, across all generations. It's been featured in movies, music videos, perfume ads, and the collective imagination for decades. However, between the idealized fantasy and the reality of a wet embrace, there are a few rules to know to avoid turning a magical moment into a bad memory.

But is making love in water really a good idea? Can you get stuck? And above all, where does this universal fantasy come from? In our complete Aquasutra guide, we separate fact from fiction, dive body and soul into the murky waters of this fascination, and share the positions to try to avoid getting a mouthful, as well as all the mistakes not to make.

Ladies and gentlemen, your next erotic swim promises to be unprecedented. Pool season has begun!

The Aquasutra: The treatise on the rules of love in water

The Aquasutra: The treatise on the rules of love in water

You've probably figured it out: "Aquasutra" is a little nod to the Kama Sutra, transposed into its aquatic version. Where the famous Indian treatise explores lovemaking positions on dry land, the Aquasutra focuses on everything that water changes: gravity, buoyancy, lubrication, support, and skin sensations.

It's not just about "making love in water" in the literal sense; it's about taming a new environment where the body no longer behaves in the same way. In water, you weigh a fraction of your weight. A partner you couldn't carry on land becomes as light as a feather. Movements slow down, become broader, more fluid. But this same buoyancy that liberates can also destabilize: you slip, lose your footing, and search for balance.

The Aquasutra is the art of playing with these constraints to turn them into assets. And like any art, it can be learned with a bit of curiosity, a lot of complicity, and a few precautions.

Before delving into practice, a little theory helps to better understand this fascination that drives French people to want to make love in water.
And yes, according to our latest Instagram poll, [XX]% of you fantasize about making love in water this summer.


Why are we so fascinated by sex in water?

Underwater sex fascinates because it transforms the ordinary into the extraordinary. Discover the three main reasons we've identified that could explain this almost irresistible attraction.

  • Because water is atavistic.
    It brings us back to the original state of the body, to that place where everything begins: warm, enveloping, and reassuring. Even before birth, we float for nine months in a liquid environment. Water awakens this oldest memory, this deep sensation of floating and lightness that makes every gesture an instinctive, almost primal experience. Finding yourself naked in the water with another is to return to something very primitive and very comforting at the same time.
  • Because water is sensual.
    Making love in water provides a terribly enveloping and incredibly refreshing sensation. A perfect environment with the scorching temperatures that summer offers us. Bodies float, brush against each other, and discover each other differently, as if suspended between pleasure and gravity. Wet skin slides differently, the water temperature creates a delicious contrast with the warmth of bodies, and the slightest movement propagates in waves and splashes. It is an experience that mobilizes all senses at once.
  • Because it's exotic.
    Water becomes a new territory of expression, with an unprecedented visual and tactile dimension that gives free rein to all imagination. We get out of bed, out of routine, change scenery and therefore roles. We splash, we kiss passionately, bodies reunite, free and feverish. There is also, often, a small dose of prohibition: the midnight swim, the isolated cove, the shared shower for two... And all this adds spice and adrenaline to this erotic swim.

Love in the Water: The Real Risks Deciphered Under the Microscope by Our Experts

The question everyone's asking: Can you get stuck while making love in a pool?

Admit it: the question has crossed your mind, somewhere between excitement and a hint of apprehension. It's one of Aquasutra's most persistent and shared fears. Cinema itself has tackled it: remember the cult scene from Les Infidèles, where Gilles Lellouche finds himself in a rather... inextricable position.

This scenario, worthy of a comedy, even has a medical name, almost romantic: "penis captivus." On the internet, anxiety is palpable and testimonials abound, depicting the female body as a formidable trap. Rest assured: these accounts remain anecdotal, sometimes even frankly invented. Nothing, then, to dampen your summer passions.

From a scientific perspective, penis captivus is believed to be the result of a muscle spasm that contracts the vagina around the penis, making separation momentarily difficult. A distant cousin of vaginismus, with one nuance: where vaginismus manifests beforehand and prevents penetration, this phenomenon would occur during intercourse. Spectacular on paper, infinitely rare in reality: in almost all cases, everything resolves itself naturally in a few seconds.

Because ultimately, getting "stuck" is more a matter of fantasy and collective imagination than an established fact. It's this same imagination that fueled the legend of the vagina dentata, glorified by the film Teeth, where a young woman turns her intimacy into a weapon of mass emasculation. Enough to fuel myths... much more than statistics.

So, breathe, relax, and keep the essentials in mind: a successful aquasutra is not about luck, but about a few simple and precious actions: protected sex, enthusiastic consent, a lubricant designed for water, and sincere attention to the other's pleasure. The rest is just play, freshness, and abandon.


Risks to your intimate well-being 

The aquatic environment, however seductive, is never neutral for your intimate flora. Depending on the location, precautions change.

In the ocean. If you enjoy midnight swims in the open sea or in turquoise coves, remember to rinse with clear water after your escapade. Salt, bacteria, and microbes in the water can reduce natural lubrication, cause slight intimate discomfort, and lead to small infections. Seawater is not sterile: a quick rinse afterwards makes a real difference.

In the pool. Disinfectants are not without risk for your intimate flora. Chlorine, essential for sanitizing water, also attacks the delicate vaginal balance. By rinsing thoroughly after swimming, you eliminate chlorine residues and preserve your flora and its protective mucus.

In the jacuzzi. Less known but just as important: hot water promotes the proliferation of certain bacteria. The combination of heat, humidity, and stagnant water creates a fertile ground for discomfort. To avoid any problems, don't stay in too long and always rinse with clear water afterward.

Physical risks

Beware, sex in the water can be slippery! Wet surfaces like pool edges, shower tiles, or bathtub bottoms become real ice rinks. Be on your guard, especially if you've inadvertently left lubricant lying around: avoid slipping mid-movement, ensure good footing, and avoid overly daring acrobatics that could go wrong. If necessary, use an anti-slip bath mat to prevent a painful twist... and a trip to the hospital.

Health risks

Making love in water doesn't change rule number 1: condom use is just as necessary as on land. Water protects neither against sexually transmitted infections nor an unwanted pregnancy. In fact, it's the opposite, as some persistent myths suggest otherwise. Make sure to put it on correctly, and remove it properly, preferably out of the water, where handling is safer and more reliable.

Risks to erection

Gentlemen, if you have ever swum in water that is too cold, you are undoubtedly familiar with the phenomenon of "penile retraction," which can lead to an almost immediate loss of erection in some people. Cold causes a reflexive vasoconstriction, which is not conducive to maintaining an erection. Add to that penetration that is sometimes more laborious than on land, and the risk of losing an erection is greatly increased. The solution is simple: choose water above 20°C and below 37°C, the ideal comfort zone for the body and desire.

Risks to your sexual comfort

Sex in water can be very uncomfortable, especially for women: water penetrates the vagina, making skin-to-skin contact drier and more jerky than usual. This is one of Aquasutra's most counter-intuitive paradoxes: while everything around you is wet, natural lubrication is actually greatly reduced. Water "washes away" the protective mucus, and penetration can quickly become unpleasant, painful, or even unbearable.

To protect yourself from this, use waterproof intimate lubricants, such as the natural orange blossom massage lubricant, or the ultimate lubricants available on YESforLOV in 3 consistencies: fluid, medium, or thick. Unlike water-based lubricants, which dissolve instantly upon contact with water, these formulas hold up and guarantee lasting glide.

Risks to your wallet

A little reminder for the most imprudent and long-time adventurers: exhibitionism or making love in a public place can be costly... up to 1 year imprisonment and a €15,000 fine under French law. The deserted beach that seems perfectly isolated to you can very quickly cease to be so. You've been warned: discretion and silence are essential, and respect for others remains the first rule.

The 3 best positions for beginning sex in the water

The 3 best positions for beginning sex in the water

Discover three sex positions that will keep you from swallowing water...

1. The Marine Knot

You are face to face, the water enveloping you up to his torso. Gently leaning on his shoulders, you wrap your legs around his thighs. He gently supports your body, and the lightness of the water frees your movements. This is the ideal entry position into Aquasutra: intimate, intertwined, it relies almost entirely on the buoyancy of the water, which eliminates weight and allows you to hold the posture much longer than on land.

Pros: Discreet enough to venture safely into deep waters, this position adds just the right amount of spice to your aquatic games. Being face-to-face allows you to maintain eye contact, kiss, and whisper — in short, to remain connected and complicit.

Aqua extra: Beware of swimsuit bottoms that could be a party pooper! Rather than removing them (and risking losing them at the bottom of the pool), gently slide them to the side or wrap them around your wrist to maintain control and preserve your elegance.

2. The Enchanted Buoy

Comfortably straddle him in the center of the buoy, legs together and feet in the water. Gently sway back and forth and let him intensify the rhythm by holding you firmly by the hips. The buoy here acts as a real pleasure accessory: it stabilizes, supports, and adds a playful dimension to the whole experience.

Pros: Once comfortably settled in the heart of the buoy, let the ripples and splashes cool your bodies and revive your senses. The flotation does all the support work, making the position surprisingly comfortable and sustainable.

Aqua extra: To vary the pleasures, change the angle by placing your legs on his shoulders... and beware of prying eyes from other swimmers! A well-chosen buoy (large, stable, well-inflated) makes all the difference between a smooth moment and a hilarious aquatic game.

3. The Water Dance

Run a little water into the bathtub, then let the shower head envelop you in its refreshing drops. Lie on your side, while your partner comes to settle beside you. Let your bodies harmonize in a fluid and complicit dance. This is the tenderest position of the trio, ideal for home, away from prying eyes, when desire rises on a summer evening.

Pros: Each movement becomes a gentle caress, a delicate exchange that awakens your senses. The side-lying position limits the risk of slipping and allows you to let go safely.

Aqua extra: Slide a hand along the inside of his thigh and dare a gentle game, paced by tenderness and complicity. The shower head, handled delicately, becomes a precious sensory ally to heighten desire.

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9 tips to quench your thirst, even when far from a water source

The Aquasutra is just one of many ways to stay cool and calm your desires when your libido-meter goes wild. Here are our ten tips for melting with pleasure without melting in the sun.

  1. The fan, a breath of love and freshness. Hair in the wind, shivers down your spine: with it by your side, you're sure to find some coolness even in the strongest heat.
  2. Your home, an accomplice to your desires. A stainless steel table that invites boldness, a cabin in the woods, cool tiles... Go in search of all the cool nooks and crannies of your home.
  3. Frozen sheets. Pop your sheets in the freezer for a few minutes before bed: a fresh and deliciously surprising touch to start the night beautifully.
  4. Under the stars, late at night. Settle under the sky, skin against skin, breath against breath, and take advantage of this suspended moment to embark on a cosmic embrace in the cool of the night.
  5. Ice cube games. An ice cube sliding millimeter by millimeter over the curves of your body: an exhilarating sensation of freshness, a simple, sensual, addictive, and totally free game.
  6. YESforLOV crackling massage foams. Creamy, sparkling and refreshing, with their lewd scents that smell strongly of summer love: it's the most fun and addictive massage to try this season. Discover it on yesforlov.com.
  7. Choose the right positions. Missionary position at 35°C? We skip it, no thanks. Dare to try positions that let your bodies breathe, like doggy style or the Andromache.
  8. Unlimited fresh lubricant. A long-lasting lubricating effect and deliciously striking cold sensations, all in one product... and it's French. Order the YESforLOV cold effect intimate gel without further delay.
  9. The erotic-chilled aperitif. Frozen strawberry, frosted grape, fresh watermelon slice and YESforLOV popping candy: awaken your taste buds and sweeten each other with impunity.

Making love in water has always been fascinating because it brings together everything desire loves: novelty, sensation, mobility, play, and a small dose of the forbidden. You now have all the keys to a successful aquatic experience. And you would be wrong not to let yourself be tempted: summer is made for exploring, playing, and awakening your senses... always with pleasure, complicity, and respect.

So, pool, shower, jacuzzi, or ocean: it's up to you to write your own chapter of the Aquasutra.