FELLATION AND CUNNILINGUS, HOW TO EROTICIZE ORAL SEX?

When our bodies intertwine, our tongues loosen, our breaths mingle and our eyes meet, we enter a sensational world, a high-intensity erotic imagination that is sure to make the skin vibrate and the hearts beat. Among all the sexual practices, there is one that stands out in particular and that many love and demand : oral sex. 

And yes, oral sex holds a special place among the means of giving and receiving pleasure with your partner. Oral sex is an art , an invitation to discover oneself and the other. Fellatio , cunnilingus or even anilingus are forms of eroticism that bring ecstasy and fulfillment, however, it can be difficult for some, even repugnant, to fully embrace this experience and to coat it with an aura of sensuality. Indeed, the idea of ​​offering our sex to the mouth of our partner and vice versa can lead to complexes, stress and moments of doubt.

How do you free yourself from these apprehensions? How to delight and intensely sublimate this intimate and precious moment? In this article, YESforLOV reveals the keys to achieving this and shares some good tips to enhance your oral play sessions.

7 TIPS FOR SUCCESSFUL ORAL SEX

7 TIPS FOR SUCCESSFUL ORAL SEX

1. Open your mind and savor the moment

To make the practice of oral sex even more erotic and sensual than it already is, it is important to free your mind from all judgment: forget these apprehensions that penalize you. Fellatio and cunnilingus are carnal dances, imbued with purity and harmony, capable of offering exquisite sensations to those who indulge in them without complex. There is no shame in loving this practice, rather see it as a celebration of the intimacy and beauty of our bodies. You have to “want” but also “love” giving pleasure to excel in this loving practice. When you take pleasure in exploring your partner's body with your mouth and tongue, this results in intense sensations and total harmony between the two partners.

2. Accept being vulnerable and powerful at the same time

The practice of fellatio or cunnilingus requires a good deal of courage and vulnerability because it involves “giving” and “giving oneself to the other” in a very intimate way. As a giver, you become master or mistress of the other's ecstasy . Your tongue, lips and mouth trace a smooth course, offering a myriad of tasty sensations to your partner. In all his vulnerability, your partner delivers his body to you, making you the guardian of his pleasure, capable of sending him to seventh heaven. Between her thighs, it is you who are in control of her pleasure. As a receiver, you give your confidence and your fragility to the loved one plunged between your legs to offer you a show with strong erotic power. Seeing your loved one devoted to your pleasure is an exquisitely erotic sight, so don't hesitate to let yourself go and simply enjoy the moment.

3. Pay attention to small details

To make your oral sex or cunnilingus even more sensual and erotic, pay special attention to the atmosphere and your environment . Spray a little aphrodisiac mist on your sheets, light a scented candle , dim the light in the room, wear lingerie in which you feel sexy, powerful and seductive… Take the time to prepare, to cuddle with our intimate serum and embrace your role as a seducer before indulging in the sensuality of the present moment.

4. Communicate is still and always the key

Communication is the elixir that makes it possible to sublimate the experience of oral sex without a hitch . Dare to ask your partner what makes him or her vibrate, what touches him or her the most. Before abandoning yourself to this voluptuous dance, discuss your preferences to avoid any missteps and experience this moment of pure eroticism without gene. Finally, ask yourself the right questions: does your other half prefer moans, those charming noises that plunge you into ecstasy? Is she looking for intense, mesmerizing eye contact with you? By speaking freely, you will be able to provide your loved one with the most sensual and wonderful experience of oral sex. Express your wishes , your dreams and your limits to immerse yourself in deep harmony. Do not hesitate to give verbal instructions during the act , a breath whispered in your ear can be terribly sexy.

DISCOVER OUR EROTIC COSMETICS TO ENHANCE ORAL SEX

5. Test intimate cosmetics and sensual accessories

Did you know ? Intimate cosmetics and erotic accessories can add a wildly erotic dimension to oral sex . Arm yourself with our gourmet peach apricot lubricant to enjoy your partner's intimacy like a sweet fruit. Our intimate water-based massage and lubricant gels are said to be edible and are perfectly suited for fellatio and cunnilingus practices, to which they give a subtle and addictive taste. You can also test our range of erotic accessories with our caressing feather, our vegan leather handcuffs or our satin headband. If you want to enhance your natural fragrance while giving your partner an aphrodisiac treat, sprinkle a few drops of our intimate mist where he.she will taste you. Precisely where he or she least expects it and hopes for it the most. In addition to intoxicating your partner's senses, YESforLOV intimate cosmetics have the ability to help you let go of concerns about the possible smell of your intimacy, so that you can enjoy this carnal moment without any stress. nor worry.

6. Consider role-playing
Role-playing games are a playful and seductive way to explore and eroticize the practice of oral sex. The doors of the imagination are open to you, and it's up to you to give free rein to your boldest dreams and apply them to the situation. Role-playing games allow you to transform into a different character, to free yourself from your inhibitions to enter a new dimension. Will you be a doctor, and your partner the patient with an overflowing sexual appetite? Two strangers getting stuck in an elevator? The possibilities are endless, it's up to you to choose the scenario that will transport you to a world of eroticism and excitement.

7. Remember the importance of varying positions

To ignite the eroticism of cunnilingus or fellatio, the choice of positions is very important. Like a sensual choreography, the position adopted during this intimate dance plays a crucial role in the intensity of the experience. Explore different positions in search of the perfect harmony between you and your lover. What view will you offer to his eager gaze? Your seductive curves, your well sculpted buttocks, or the bewitching invitation of your chest or your torso? Because it's your whole body that lends itself to the game of seduction , even if your mouth is the conductor of this erotic symphony. Dare to move, undulate, letting your ecstasy manifest through each movement. That each quivering, each caress of your silhouette is a tangible manifestation of your shared excitement, it is our dearest wish.

Oral sex is a subtle art that requires patience, dedication, trust and a bit of creativity . It's up to you to experiment and test this loving and sexual practice at your own pace. Together, listen to each other and let your intuition guide you. Be present at every moment, savor every sensation, every thrill, every caress and make this moment an incredible experience.