Oral practices without lust or excess are simple pleasures of physical love and are globally appreciated. From the kiss conducive to the blossoming of amorous desire to the most "salivating" fellatio, there is nothing intrusive and above all no submission in these very pleasant encounters in contact with bodies and languages that are want playful and adventurous... Oral sex has a good taste, an incomparable and unique taste we should say, which lovingly takes on an incredible sensual dimension at one time or another. In this magical moment, it becomes an intelligent and non-vulgar ingredient, essential and limitless, of a love free from all prohibitions.
Oral sex invites you to go beyond the false borders of modesty, disgust with yourself and the other. And as Doctor Jacques Waynberg points out, "it is through orality that acceptance of one's own sex and that of the other passes". A kiss placed at the corner of the lips and here we are, all of a sudden, in an intimacy synonymous with mutual agreement and sharing. Many are enthusiastic and feed on all these well-targeted practices, an explosive mixture of excitement and stimulation: cunnilingus, fellatio, rimming, so many undrinkable words devoid of sensuality, with a nightmarish sound for delights exquisite in romantico-erotic mode which remain to be dig deeper if not to be discovered!
Fellatio, often wrongly reduced to simple swallowing of the penis straight out of porn, gets bad press, that's for sure, but it remains fully shared in complete privacy since it is common practice for 70% of French people aged 25-34. However, 12% of women aged 35 to 39 have never had this seemingly rewarding experience: such is at least the result of the survey on sexuality in France “Pratiques, genre et santé” , by Nathalie Bajos and Michel Bozon (ed. La Découverte).
The deep throat , the "holy grail" in this practice, the ultimate challenge to achieve for a successful fellatio? What a false good idea that is sometimes misleading! Ambitious practice and which would like to be voluptuous and of a tiny delicacy to be taken with tweezers. Do not try to follow all these actresses "on order" and in need of notoriety, pampered by the directors of X films, on a not very rosy ground. No porn, and no vulgarity in our words: place here for tenderness, gentleness and the greatest slowness in gestures and feelings for a pleasure to share. Plunge without apprehension your enamored gaze deep into your partner's eyes, wisely alternate the movements of this so subtle and sought-after "coming and going", the appropriate rhythm will be invited all the more quickly to the party. Let your hands surf all those sensitive erogenous zones, testicles and buttocks at the top of the list as they should be. Young and old, juniors and seniors, all take full advantage of this game that unites mouth and sex so well. A single watchword: do not try anything without desire and against your will.
With regard to cunnilingus, the procedure seems to be less appreciated by the fairer sex with only 52% of women who discreetly admit to being “starters”. To each his own way of love and without obligation to consume at all costs. Preferences are a matter of taste or even education more or less strict. But let everyone tell each other under the feminine coat! Up and down movements are generally the most appreciated as are rolling tongues around the glans of the clitoris. With progression, gently increase the pressure and the rhythm will follow naturally. Stay tuned to your partner to give him the best of yourself. To each and everyone his tempo in the love dance, that of the glans on one side and the clit on the other, and this finally sublimates the same complicit tempo for two beings who love and appreciate each other.
For rimming , according to an ELLE-Ifop survey on “intimacy, the couple and pleasure,” the practice of hummingbird kissing, even if it is very popular, is still taboo and reserved for wealthy and sexually inclined people. free from all constraints. Only 15% of French women have already practiced it during their life, while 26% of them claim to have had to undergo this practice from their partner. About 43% of women who practice rimming are homosexual or bisexual compared to 13% of heterosexual women. This erotic practice of the black kiss, like other amorous approaches, can prove to be particularly exciting for some but just as inconvenient for others.
Learning to love in complete complicity and without misunderstandings, to give everything and to fully receive, is great but prior to any relationship, however deep it may be, respect above all and knowing how to accept the true desires of the one and the other. And especially not one without the other.