THE ART OF PEGGING: WHEN ANAL SEX SHAKES UP CODES

Do you know pegging, this way of loving yourself by freeing yourself from codes, rules, norms and roles sometimes sabotaged by the legacy of heterosexual patriarchy?

The practice of anal sex has more and more success in lesbian couples but also and especially among heterosexuals. If the word “sodomy” can sometimes frighten cisgender men, the notion of pegging brings a little more sweetness and with it, its share of mysteries, desires and excitement. Let's find out more about this new fashionable sexual practice.

Why practice female pegging or sodomy?

Depending on your sex, anal penetration stimulates the prostate or the internal branches of the clitoris , until you get pleasure and allow you to reach orgasm . If the pleasure that anal sex brings is no longer to be demonstrated, that of pegging, in addition to being physical, is also psychological for both partners.

In a heterosexual couple, the woman takes control of her partner's pleasure . This feeling of “power”, even of “domination” is very often unusual and can become very exciting for the female sex. As for the man, he discovers the joys of sodomy, letting go and abandonment while freeing himself from the cult of performing sex.

If the pegging makes it possible to free oneself from codes and barriers , it absolutely does not call into question a sexual orientation . It is high time to dispel received ideas, to free speech and to affirm loud and clear that anal penetration for men should in no way be associated with homosexuality . Fortunately, over time, these stereotypes are falling for everyone's happiness.

As you have understood, pegging is a sexual game that nourishes the complicity of the couple because it requires great trust from one another . This sexual practice allows you to let go while enjoying a shared pleasure. Unlike the penile orgasm, the prostate orgasm is deep, internal, and extremely pleasurable . Pegging offers a unique sensory experience to those who dare to try it. The roles are reversed and each partner abandons his posture and his habits to put himself in the place of the other. This sexual reciprocity is enough to experience a lot of pleasure and offer you a nice love experience to share as a couple. So ready to try?

Pegging or pegging, what is it?

What is pegging? Concretely and to put it simply, it is a sexual act during which a person with a vulva practices sodomy on his or her partner using a strap-on .

The pegging - or chevillage in French - dates from antiquity . Already practiced by the Romans in the brothels of Pompeii and Rome, it is now coming back to the fore and not without reason! Sodomize his or her spouse? Getting his anus penetrated by his partner? This unfairly forgotten practice of love may frighten or impress you, but it is a source of inestimable pleasure and enjoyment . Let us explain, tell you more and perhaps convince you to try, you, who perhaps had n't planned to look into the subject and you, fans of dildos, strap-ons and harnesses of all kinds.

How to practice pegging and learn about pegging?

To taste the joys and delights of pegging, you will need to be well equipped. There are two types of strap-ons. It's up to you to make your choice according to your desires.

- Strap-on dildos with harnesses: they consist of a harness to put on and a dildo to insert into it. If you choose to use a harness, prefer one in which you find yourself sexy. We recommend the FUN FACTORY one available in the passagedudésir boutique. Also pay attention to the size of the harness: neither too big nor too small. It must be tight enough to hold properly while supporting the weight of the dildo and the back and forth movements. For the dildo, choose a toy with a small diameter, and a little curved to be able to stimulate the prostate.

- So-called “ beltless” strap-on dildos: these intimate toys are inserted directly into the vagina of the penetrating person and provide superb sensations by massaging the G-spot while stimulating the glans of the clitoris. It is therefore a good option if the penetrating person wishes to be stimulated at the same time as he takes care of his or her partner.

At YESforLOV, we recommend the SHARE LIGHT , the best toy in its category. You can choose your dildo with a vibrating option for exquisite shared sensations. However, this option is reserved for muscular perineums, at the risk of not holding up.

What are the rules to know to practice pegging?

1 - Communicate

Pegging, like any love practice, is an art in its own right. It is essential to find the perfect balance between strength, softness, depth, rhythm and movements . This requires the penetrating person to listen to the slightest reactions of the loved one. Communication is therefore essential. Discuss before, during, and do n't forget to debrief afterwards. Unlike sodomy, pegging does not allow the penetrating person to feel the subtlety of his or her partner's internal reactions. This is why you will have to redouble your exchanges .

2 - Go easy

Anal penetration is not innate and our dear and tender anus needs time and love to relax . So we go there gently and little by little, first with caresses around the area and massages. You can then start with fingers, and why not a small anal plug like the bootie available in our shop . Once your partner feels ready, you can move on to pegging, taking it easy.

3 - Find the position that suits you

To be able to enjoy the pleasures of pegging, the position is very important. Here, several choices are available to you.

The penetrated person wishes to maintain control and manage the depth and rhythm. In this case, prefer sexual positions where she will be on top , such as the amazon or the reverse cowgirl .
The penetrating person wishes to enjoy the view of his or her partner. The doggy style will be perfect for this scenario: it offers a bird's eye view of the buttocks and the arched back of the other.

4 - Do n't forget the anal lubricant, an essential

When pegging, as in any anal practice, the use of an intimate lubricant is essential. Indeed, the anus does not lubricate itself naturally ; the addition of a special anal lubricant will allow you to love yourself without addicts.

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Our best tips for discovering and trying this sexual practice

Pegging also and above all happens in the head. In a straight couple, reversing the roles can be intimidating. There is therefore a long way to go to eroticize the situation and enjoy this foreign role for one as for the other. Before talking about pegging, discover together the pleasures of anal sex which offers many possibilities! With the tongue, fingers, sex toys... there are a thousand and one ways to feel pleasure in this area.

If you need a little boost to relax the anal area , do not hesitate to enrich your anal lubricant with relaxing active ingredients such as CBD for example. A few drops of our CBD Concentrate in your anal lube will make a big difference and help you relax and let go .

Schedule time. As with any practice involving anal , pegging is not practiced in the form of quicky, between a telephone meeting and an appointment with the physiotherapist. Take the time to create an atmosphere , start by taking a shower together, perfume your sheets , light a candle, dim the lights, put on sensual music in the background... Do n't forget that sexuality is an infinite playground and that any good part of legs in the air starts with a good preparation .

Pegging and prostatic pleasures work to redefine sexuality in favor of an uninhibited and taboo-free approach for the pleasure of giving and the joy of receiving. So, ready to take the leap? Something tells us we've piqued your curiosity and your sex life is about to change...