Going back slowly and "Western style", to the origins of Tantrism coming straight from India and the Tibetan highlands of the Himalayas, modern Tantra imposes itself on us as a new royal road to find harmony. in the couple, to flourish on a personal basis in solo and finally live his life as intensely as possible.
Modern tantra is incredibly rich in its three dimensions: sex, heart and head, with at the end of this mysterious intimate journey to be done alone and much better as a duo, this very strong link between the body and the soul. spirit that highlights so much a quality of presence and consciousness that is not only physical but also psychic and even spiritual for the most motivated. To these three dimensions, add three keys: breathing, movement, sound, and you completely rock your sex life, which is a little too routine. New sensations, unprecedented connection with the other, of the psyche which dares to enter the field of purely physical love without devaluing it, it's not nothing, it's fabulous! There is however no eroticism at all in tantric sex and its massages despite their rather sensual connotation. It is much more than that. Surprising to admit, but it's really about sex and sexual energy and without acting out. It's just as much “tantra” massages, much more spiritual than sexual and done very gently, very slowly, at the antipodes of our traditional lambda massages of our daily life.
It is true that tantric sex with its massages is a hell of a challenge to engage and win, it is a bet of love, esteem and respect vis-à-vis oneself first of all but also vis-à-vis towards the other.