🔥1 - The Excitation Phase: The thrill of the first caresses
The first stage, the arousal phase , is when it all begins: a furtive glance exchanged, a barely touched caress, a warm breath on the skin, a delicate scent floating in the air. The arousal phase begins as soon as the body responds to a stimulus , whether visual, auditory, olfactory, cerebral or tactile.
As soon as the stimulus is perceived, your sex hormones will launch into an exquisite ballet, lasting from a few seconds to a few minutes. Testosterone whets the appetite for pleasure, dopamine instills desire, and the cerebral cortex lights up, ready to orchestrate a burning connection. Your sensory receptors are awakened, every patch of skin becomes receptive. Breathing quickens, blood rushes, investing the erectile bodies, stiffening the penis and clitoris, intensifying every sensation, exacerbating every caress…
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🔥2- The plateau phase: The promise of exquisite abandonment
At this stage, excitement is skyrocketing, every moment a prelude to the promises of pleasure to come. The heat intensifies, slowly diffuses, your skin quivers with desire. Sensations blend and intertwine, the boundaries between body and soul dissolve in this intimate effervescence. The alchemy between you is woven, soft and electric, each brush becoming a call to imminent orgasm. Lubrication becomes intense , impatience is felt, like a melody that we wait to see conclude. The body prepares for orgasm, the penis and clitoris assert themselves, vibrating under the burning pressure of the blood. This is the longest phase of the cycle, which corresponds to a variable and increasing level of arousal. And for people with vulvas, this suspended moment is savored longer, to fan the flames, to brush without giving in. Real sexual tension should build at the crescendo of your caresses. It's a more subtle and prolonged alchemy than for people with penises, but regardless of gender, the greater the patience, the greater the explosion...
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🔥 3 - The Orgasm phase: The release of desire, the holy grail of pleasure.
At breakneck speed, the long-awaited moment erupts. Each shudder becomes a silent scream, and orgasm unfolds within you under the influence of secret hormones such as oxytocin, vasopressin, and serotonin, dissipating all the tension accumulated during this unique lovemaking experience. Once the point of no return is crossed, the entire body vibrates, each pulse transforms into a feeling of inevitable letting go . The heart rate races, heat invades every pore of your skin, muscles tense, your legs tremble, and ejaculation often becomes an accomplice of this intense moment. The male orgasm , which is faster, is accompanied by immediate release, while the female orgasm, which takes longer to reach, deploys waves of intense pleasure, ranging from 3 to 25 seconds, with 3 to 15 pelvic contractions at regular intervals. These sensations electrify you from the inside out, a continuous flow of deep and exquisite pleasure. As a bonus for those with vulvas: the ability to repeat and experience multiple orgasms in a row, without a break, during the same act.
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🔥 4 - the resolution phase: The penis in the refractory phase and the vulva to be satisfied
The ecstasy slowly dissipates, giving way to a comforting, almost cocooning warmth that envelops you both. The silence, that of shared satisfaction, becomes a sweet melody. You look at each other, a knowing look, as if time had stood still, as if each moment shared together were a masterpiece of pleasure.
A desire to start again arises in you, but a break is necessary for these gentlemen (it can last 30 minutes to several days). In people with penises , after orgasm, the excitement dies down and the refractory phase sets in. This phenomenon is linked to the drop in dopamine (pleasure and reward hormone), testosterone (sexual desire hormone), and the secretion of prolactin, which inhibits sexual desire.
For people with vulvas, desire takes on a completely different form. Her arousal may persist, and her orgasms may come and go, intensifying tenfold. She may find herself in a state of delicious excitement, ready to ask for more attention and caresses, because her desire intensifies after orgasm, provided it was fully satisfying. Her resolution period is often faster, and her desires remain vivid and present, ready to be explored again.
So, don't leave your partner in a mild but present frustration. Once you have reached your own orgasm, it is essential to offer her this attention, this closeness, to lead her to her total fulfillment. Shared pleasure extends beyond the moment; it is in this communion that complete harmony is found. To prolong her pleasure, dare to use sex toys , your best ally to guide her to new and well-deserved orgasms . In our exquisite arsenal of intimate toys, we recommend clitoral suction stimulators , such as the MEA or the ONA .
