Vice of man, sensual discovery of oneself, sexual exploration and solitary recognition of one's own sensory pleasures, male masturbation has long been considered a practice to which it is Above all, do not succumb since it would be a priori a certain scourge for humanity! That's what was said anyway in cottages and elsewhere in ancient times. That time is long gone even if the art of masturbating still does not have this perfectly golden image that we would like to give it. Rest assured ! Venture into these new sensations has no chance of driving you crazy like have it yet long led to believe our Western beliefs. Since the end of the 1930s, this other approach to sexuality has nevertheless gradually made its way within our society, which is so finicky, to the point of finally finding its place there and being fully accepted. Young men of all ages, your precious engine, your sex for all to say has much more to give than simply coming to satisfy your natural urinary needs and your desires to give life. For you alone or as a couple, well-controlled masturbation will bring you moments of pleasure that you are far from suspecting! Accept from time to time that his own seed goes "in the wild" should in no way be considered as a refusal of reproduction and even less the response to a dissatisfaction of the couple on the sexual level! Onanism, a somewhat barbaric term but which simply brings together all the individual practices of penis stimulation is very often involved in our first orgasm, it is an easy, fast and accessible way to pleasure. Even better : it proves a sacred companion of pleasure throughout the sexual life of the human being, in his pleasures alone as in his pleasures shared and at least 3 times a week according to a Womanizer survey of 6,000 people. If many studies lift the veil on the real frequency of masturbation, it is just as important to understand its benefits and how to achieve it! YESforLOV introduces you to male pleasure, to the discovery of the benefits of top-notch masturbation, to the art of "taking control" of your pleasure where it is found most naturally in the world! And he was High time to fix it, isn't it gentlemen? With or without the agreement of the partner in addition!
Masturbation, a pleasure has everything goes ... if not more!
Male masturbation concerns more or less any individual armed with a penis, from the bibs of childhood up to the torments of an old age to be delayed. Infant masturbation would allow the child to relax, to reassure himself, to provide him with pleasant sensations. Masturbation can be shared, in pairs or more , in the bathroom, in the bedroom, out of sight, regardless of sexual orientation and family situation. Whether alone or as a couple , whether you are rich or poor, masturbation is available to everyone without exception or at least to those who want to learn about this practice of sex off the beaten track! Here, there is no room for taboos and prohibitions, no shame to feel, no embarrassment to have, it's all natural. Let it all be said loud and clear! Regular masturbation does not present any danger , it is only there to satisfy desires, to give solitary or two pleasure, for to reinforce the human being in his well-being and his sexual blooming always in search of new pleasures.
In adulthood, masturbation is obviously an erotic practice whose main purpose is this famous ejaculation which sometimes triggers the orgasm so desired and sought after! What beautiful surprises, what beautiful virtues in this masturbation for men and it's really time to take an interest in it!
The 5 unsuspected benefits
- It promotes the release of endorphins . In the rest of the warrior after the orgasm, it brings a real sensation of maximum physical and mental well-being.
- It is a powerful anxiolytic, the most natural of muscle relaxants and antidepressants.
- She fights the stress and anxiety of an oppressive daily life. Source of such a welcome letting go!
- It allows you to discover and explore your body to better know it both in its limits and in its desires! She guides you and takes you to new pleasures for intense and constantly renewed orgasms.
- Masturbation can also remedy a decrease in libido in the couple, it helps to balance the reciprocity of desires and desires of each. If consent is essential in any romantic relationship, you are indeed the only master of your pleasures alone!
When vice and calculated risks mingle with the pleasure of male masturbation!
Very urgent physical need? This is indeed the only vice with which masturbation can possibly be decked out and with it so that the package is complete, the state of mind and its morality locked to death! Nothing more to negative about masturbation! To top it off, let's say that it is a practice that can easily be implemented with impunity and much more in painful times of Covid. Unusual anecdote: the New York public health agency (NY-DOH) has recommended that Americans masturbate to avoid the spread of Sras-Cov-2! You are your safest partner and, let it be said everywhere, masturbation does not spread Covid-19! it is even strongly recommended since she whom she helps, it seems, to boost the production of immunoglobulins 1, a natural defense that fights the flu and colds. If you didn't know, now remember that masturbation reduces the risk of developing prostate cancer . Many studies on this subject confirm this.
Long considered a substitute for common sexual relations, masturbation builds above all a vector of independence and autonomy , well-being also for all those who suffer from loneliness, for all those who are curious enough to discover their own body and awaken their sexual awareness. At the other end of the line of reasoning, however, nothing has been proven to date concerning the potential risks of repeated masturbation.
Your imagination, your main danger
It may be true! First of all, make sure that you do not harm yourself in all that you carry of morals and principles in relation to your sexuality! … And to your partner's sexuality if you are in a relationship! Satisfying a sexual need alone is not illegal and it's perfectly healthy in body and mind! but in a couple you are two to live and to love: then, sharing your intimacy and the erotic moments that you give each other is essential for the ambient vitality of your couple if not for its long-term survival. Everything must be done without getting rid of a perfect agreement! Your partner deserves all these pleasures of sex just as much, whether or not they happen alone or in pairs, it doesn't matter! What is essential is to seek the perfect balance for two for the best of pleasures under the duvet! So yes ! solo masturbation can be great...to provided that it does not harm the other in any way! It's out of the question to play on your own and put your couple in difficulty: when it comes to sex, pleasure must be shared, complicit and not one-sided, to preserve all this wonderful sensual dimension of the pleasures of body and mind.
In masturbation, it is the mechanical act in its great natural banality that could pose a problem when it should automatically impose itself as the superb tool for exploring all male erogenous zones: the testicles, the glans or the P-spot ... Very ready to accompany us in the rise of sensations, to tell us everything about our own caresses, to identify those we love to better eliminate those we love less. Attention ! Too repeated, masturbation can become dangerous for the health of the couple, creating a certain imbalance, a loss of connection with the other's body, imposing too much distancing in relationships and romantic exchanges. OKAY ! so it's a massive "Yes" to male masturbation … as well as female masturbation, but under conditions! And how about a real package happily marrying the erotic jousts of male and female masturbation, solitary masturbation… for two! The theater of love is sold out!
Contrary to the fairer sex, the visual experience is very often the key to male enjoyment: erotic video, porn magazine of all kinds, ballads on the Web, there is really something to function and fantasize to the fullest: be careful however to not to develop obsessive compulsive disorder, an addiction that is repeated mechanically over and over again!
Excess porn is not safe with masturbation:
At high doses, the latter implicitly encourages you to look for something that will excite us even more, and without warning, the routine in your sexuality settles in slyly, without making noise. Your imagination is extinguished, and curiously, your desires and the excitement that goes with them vanish, everything is at half mast! Enough is enough ! Beyond the risks of addiction, orgasm can become very mechanical to finally lose power and this can have a real impact on sexual relations. If you feel unwell while practicing masturbation or a feeling of shame and guilt that becomes too much to bear, do not hesitate to talk about it in confidence with a sexologist. It will be of great help to you.
Did you know ? In 2019, according to a study conducted by IFOP and ELLE magazine, 95% of men have already masturbated at least once in their life and French women have never been so numerous to succumb to the joys of onanism, three out of four women (76%) admitting to having ́ ja ̀ masturbated during their life, against barely 19% in 1970 (Simon Report). Would women be at the head of the race in this matter ? Not yet since only 14% of them today admit to masturbating “often”, against 28% of men.
Masturbation: 8 techniques to have fun!
Bringing back, summing up masturbation to a simple more or less rapid back and forth movement would be very simplistic and yet, for too many men, it remains an automatism amounting to grabbing his penis until ejaculation comes out. follow. Conversely, rather than systematically seeking to discharge his drive, a man has every interest in masturbating properly. We propose to you 8 tips for masturbating well and diversifying your pleasures:
1. Preliminaries as a start:
A hand caressing the canvas of trousers, a friction on the pillow, a hand resting on sex, foreplay is a subtle way to amplify the rush of arousal before direct penis stimulation.
Take your time, touch yourself gradually, which will heighten the excitement. Start soft and slow for sharper and more powerful pleasures to come.
2. Explore your erogenous zones!
Your body has tons of them! On the way ! Use your fingers for a few caresses on the lower abdomen, the secondary erogenous zones accompany the tempo: the neck, the thighs, everything must go there!
The testicles should also be in your sights. Dare to venture off the beaten track, the testicles are one of the most sensitive areas of the male body.
They deserve all your attention and the greatest delicacy in the caress game.
3. Use intimate lubricating gels
It's the BABA of a successful masturbation! Humans don't lubricate naturally, that's a fact. Intimate lubricants facilitate the contact of your hands on the penis and provide comfort and natural gliding sensations that indirectly reproduce intimate secretions. No doubt you won't do without. Masturbating without lubricant means losing a lot of the pleasure you seek!
At YESforLOV, we invite you to test this advice for less than one euro with our samples of intimate lubricants. For more pleasure, dare to use a natural lubricant with stimulating effects: our stimulating heat lubricant provides a warming sensation that pleasantly reproduces the heat of bodies in fusion. This intimate lubricant is also available in a cold version to give you mucous membrane shivers.
4. Vary rhythms and positions:
Use your left hand, your right hand or both simultaneously. You are not ambidextrous, nothing serious, the change of hand allows you to learn to manage your excitement and break the routine.
Vary the pressure and the rhythms to get to know your pleasure better. On the glans of the penis, the brake or the entire penis!
All variants are good and should be tried to treat yourself as a good selfish person to a good bowl of eroticism.
5. Make the fun last, try edging!
Along the way, take a short break and learn how to manage your ejaculations ; it is an excellent solo technique which has the merit of being useful, positive both for the couple and for yourself.
You can test our extender or block the arrival of sperm by exerting pressure on the base of the penis, the objective being to increase the excitement to its climax.
6. Experience prostatic pleasures:
They are no longer too taboo today even if they are less frequent and clearly cataloged as a practice strictly reserved for homosexual pleasure: overall, anal masturbation is one of the natural ways to explore and masturbate at your convenience.
The gently massaged prostate will undeniably be able to offer you orgasms whose reputation is well established, it has even been given the name of P point.
7. Check out masturbators for men:
Yes, men also have the right to their sex toys ! In the form of sleeves with more or less sophisticated designs, masturbators are also great tools for diversifying your erotic pleasures. We recommend the tenga brand eggs, which are in fact ultra-stretchy masturbators available in the form of a sheath and which adapt to all sizes! The specificity of the Tenga is its hundreds of tiny pimples in the shape of cells which will stimulate you in a homogeneous way for an intense pleasure of the most surprising.
You can also try vibrating rings like our NOS from Fun Factory, a vibrating stimulator that can be used as a penis ring. This vibrating penis ring for men adapts to all penis sizes since its material makes it stretchy. Once placed at the base of your penis, it exerts a light pressure on the targeted areas to strengthen your erection durably.
Even more effective than its colleagues in the industry, the manta is a premium masturbator that stimulates the base of the penis and the glans in a targeted manner. The test is impressively truthful: this sex toy made in Germany designed for men has something to really upset fans of masturbation! Along the way, take a short break and learn how to manage your ejaculations; it is an excellent solo technique which has the merit of being useful, positive both for the couple and for yourself. You can block the arrival of sperm by exerting pressure on the base of the penis, the objective being to increase the excitement to its climax.
8. Dare YESforLOV intimate cosmetics to prolong your pleasure:
Discover the special naughty men's box "Male pleasure", a naughty box for men "special masturbation". This box contains the YESforLOV pleasure extender , a male spray that delays your pleasure to make your partner's pleasure last longer. This pocket sprayer is designed to help you delay your own climax, to control your ardor, to play intense overtime.
Based on natural ingredients, this retardant for men triggers a wave of hot and cold at the heart of male excitement while preserving the hypersensitivity of the glans penis. Its formula enriched with plant extracts has a muscle-relaxing effect on the penis for stimulating masturbation without time limit. Back off to better blow up ! this is the reason for this product which is at the heart of the erection for better control of ejaculation.
Masturbation for two, how to go about it with a guy?
Are we ever better served than by ourselves? Make him regret having personally estimated (so wrongly!) that masturbation was an art of loving that could only be achieved by the virtuosity of the solitary guy. Here, for you madam, gentlemen, some tips to surprise him!
1. Go to the contact and communicate directly with him:
Watch his reactions and watch his body language: It may be silly, but good masturbation for two starts with extra communication: ask him straightforwardly to describe to you what he likes, what he doesn't like , offer to accompany you on this long journey to the loving ecstasy that you both want.
In this quest for all these pleasures on command, don't forget, for a fully successful masturbation, alone but also in pairs, our YESforLOV hazelnut lubricant , the best of our intimate gels...
Along the way, take a short break and learn how to manage your ejaculations; it is an excellent solo technique which has the merit of being useful, positive both for the couple and for yourself. You can block the arrival of sperm by exerting pressure on the base of the penis, the objective being to increase the excitement to its climax.
2. Dare to role-play!
Why not break the routine of the quotient and feed your imagination with erotic scenarios that know how to adapt to circumstances?
She's famously beautiful and you're her butler! Bigger! So what ! Mistress or servant, "it doesn't matter the bottle...as long as you're drunk...".
Stuck in an elevator, on the washing machine, blindfolded, hands tied, chain and ankle ball, it will be to the tastes of both for scenarios never written in advance.
3. From you, pretty flower, pace but no rush:
Back and forth too slow , it's guaranteed boredom and your partner may fall asleep! Nothing worse than a soft, unconvincing and unconvinced hand! As for quick express masturbation, it will really hurt her! Hello damage! Let's calm down and let's go slowly but surely! You are not a machine, neither is he!
Don't over-tighten or pull too far down ; If you have an iron fist in a velvet glove, it will be hand-sewn! So quickly forget this mechanical and cushy back and forth, rather caress his testicles with an expert hand, gently slide your fingers up and down along the penis for more connection. Firmly hold the base of the penis encircling the giant.
Dare without abrupt circular movements with the palm of the hand, walk your fingers eagerly over his entire body to tickle him better! Your nimble fingers will go as they please where he most hopes and least expects it.
Endurance required , renew all your movements and synchronize them as you wish, vary the rhythm by mixing caresses and kisses. Accelerate, slow down, alternate, pass your hands up and down, tighten your fingers at the crown of the penis, this is the zone of truth, don't forget it! At the culmination of the shared pleasure, it's up to you to play the mutual win..! At the moment of orgasm, focus on the crown of the glans penis and squeeze it firmly at its base, it should not move an inch between your gentle hands!
4. In front of him, caress yourself, play the seduction
The men are inveterate voyeurs who get excited based on what they see! A little primitive and animal their way of seeing but that's how it is!
Male fantasies have a predominantly visual dimension! A look straight in the eye, a beautifully cut shiny satin dress , sexy lingerie with elegant lace , an intimate part of your body at your fingertips, what more could you ask for!
Dare to be seductive and bring him the Holy Grail on a plate by caressing you personally while he masturbates.
Anything that catches a man's eye will cause an emotional outpouring in him straight out of his overflowing imagination.
Great, all these sir fantasies so deliciously tasted on Madame's body! And vice versa perfectly authorized, of course!
5. Dare fellatio and oral sex games:
Combining masturbation with oral sex will only increase the level of pleasure.
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It is acquired! masturbation is good in solo as in duo: each in turn or in synchro if it does not harm the couple's self-esteem and sustainable development. The man has every interest in masturbating to relieve his sexual urges: he thus learns to control himself to better play with his desires, his sensations and his excitement; over time, he feels more confident in his real abilities. At YESforLOV, everything that can help to increase and prolong the excitement are avenues explored with curiosity and perseverance. Nothing is more traumatic than not knowing how to control yourself. Exercising alone to make the pleasure last longer for two, for the best of one's own sexuality and the sexuality of the other, for the great happiness of the couple in vogue or in the making, this may prove to be the real reason to exist from a masturbation - male as female - dedicated to beautiful promises!