Pleasure is a personal matter and our answer is YES! Masturbation is part of his love practices that make us vibrate, throb and sometimes orgasm. All natural and spontaneous was therefore our approach to meet you to try to uncover in all discretion the mysteries of the small and the big secrets of female pleasure alone. Agree or not to see his partner caress? What are the benefits of female masturbation? Is the clitoris the great forgotten part of the female orgasm? YESforLOV takes part in these pleasures of women so natural and so beautiful in a life which finally asks for each and everyone only to blossom lovingly, emotionally and sexually.

Come and add your grain of salt and learn more about pleasure and the female orgasm...
Come and share with us your own perspective and your valuable advice on female masturbation.
1-2-3, let's go for a dizzying exploration into the heart of female pleasure.

Female masturbation: a bygone past and a future in the making!

We start simple!

Masturbation is a sexual pleasure that materializes without firing a shot through the stimulation of her genitals and her 1st class erogenous zones (breasts, buttocks, thighs, clitoris, lips .... What could be more banal? that this gesture of affection so soft, authentic and perfectly natural made by the human being for his own pleasure when he feels the physical and mental need for it! There is no shared exclusivity nor prohibitions of elsewhere in the pleasure of enjoying one's body! Masculine or feminine, what does it matter! As long as the latter gives to whoever asks for it the most beautiful and exciting sensations! Don't roll your eyes, this gesture, for most of you, was yours unconsciously from your early childhood.

Of course, there is no question of broaching the subject of childhood masturbation here. On the other hand, masturbation from adolescence and the first years of adult life interests us enormously: 

1. Some key figures of female masturbation

At the age of 14, teenagers and teenagers engage according to their more or less lively temperament in this experimental way of personal cuddles, going full throttle to discover their body and the sensations they are likely to generate. 

At 18-19, 90% of young men experience it at least once. Do men caress each other more than women? What is it really in women of this caress which is intended to be so tender and so affectionate and which does not pose any risk to the health of all those who feel the imperious need to provoke it?

According to an IFOP study, 74% of women questioned in France confirmed in 2017 that they had already masturbated (compared to 19% in the 1970s).

The same survey carried out to identify male pleasure gives 95% of men who would indulge in masturbation in 2017 compared to 73% in the same 1970s. 

It is a real leap forward, very pleasant both feminine and masculine and particularly significant, which confirms this " marabunta" of a pleasure of sex long abandoned and which today occupies women with great intelligence and restraint. without excess, the intimate terrain of his most sensible and craziest desires, desires and fantasies.  

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1. Some key dates of female masturbation

1559 : This is the miracle year of the discovery of the clitoris
in human anatomy. 

A naughty wink and a big thank you to Professor Mateo Bocaldo Colombo for having identified the clitoris so well as "the seat of woman's pleasure" !

Going in search of this famous "spring of female desire", he turned upside down the latent lack of curiosity of his fellow anatomists at the time and returned with his incredible discovery and for decades,  a large number of incredulous doctors!

1998 : This is the magical year when the greatest scientists in the medical world finally pull the first anatomical diagram of the clitoris out of their hats.   

449 years of abandonment when it is so rich in nerve endings!

Since then , this rascal has been perfectly visible with his cute little hood and his rather mysterious glans, which have been posted for too long as a “prohibited zone”.

We even make key rings and t-shirts for his muse.

Cartography of female pleasure: from the clitoris to the cerebral procession!

In women, there is no frequency, no standard concerning her intimacy and the solitary pleasure she seeks. In this openness to female pleasure, only one great expert pilot in the field has been in charge since his discovery, the clitoris! It's a nice nod to the penis of the man who does the same job in the opposite sex! The clitoris is made up of a multitude of nerve endings that send its branches in all directions into the vagina of its owner. The clitoris is without discussion possible the conductor as long as the lady gives it all the right keys. It is he who will interpret with a certain talent made of know-how and infinite slowness a unique and so enchanting symphony.

But ... the pleasure of love in what is most secret and intimate is also mental. So, up there in your head, in this somewhat complicated but very well organized jumble of your cortex, you have a zone of sensitivity! The cerebral cortex is an organic tissue that covers the two hemispheres of your brain to a thickness of a few millimeters. It is this area of ​​the cortex (Brodman's areas to tease you!) that receives the main sensory inputs from the entire surface of your body! In the said area, which remains a bit mysterious to tell the truth, although easily located in the parietal lobe, there is a patroness of places and senses, a true master of ceremonies in your intimate pleasures. Keep in mind, for a better understanding of the functioning of our human system, that it is at this place of the cortex during sexual stimulation that we find with precision the sensory representation of the clitoris in its maximum neuronal activity...  

Female masturbation: excessive caresses and orgasms!

Ladies Women have their own orgasms and they often get them much more easily through solitary masturbation than through ordinary sex! The female orgasm is therefore not a utopia but a happy reality that we would like to salute in large widths… and the ladies gladly agree to it quietly turnkey! We saw it above, there is more than mechanics in the female orgasm! There is much more than that in this total surrender to supreme pleasure!  The orgasm is first defined by the nature of the physiological reactions it causes and one of these criteria is of course this sudden acceleration of the heart rate. We will not establish here a hierarchy in sexual ecstasies! Clitoris and vagina complement each other admirably. Sacred tandem for pleasures galore!

Techniques of clitoral and vaginal enjoyment really exist, they are very well known and to reassure you somewhat, ladies, only require good control of your body and your mind. 

The stimulation of your clitoris is done externally as well as internally.

It's up to
you to make the right gestures of affection and love with your fingers or a high-quality sex toy to fill up with joy.

Your clitoris guides you in this quest for orgasm and enjoyment.
You annoy him nicely
You touch him tenderly

You excite him warmly 

Stroke all around your clitoral-vulvar area in a popular supine position.
This is indeed the most common practice since it brings together more than 75% support. 

You will do yourself even more good if you choose to alternate in all these techniques! On the agenda in this case, variants that you will be able to unearth where they await you with a lot of imagination! You can also discover thanks to the educational series CLIMAX more than 69 techniques of external and internal caresses. 

For intense orgasms and mucous membrane caresses, a special masturbation intimate lubricant will be your surest and warmest ally to bring the fluidity and comfort that suits your clitoris, which is under severe strain at the peak of its game.  As boss of the playground, our range of intimate lubricating gels will soothe your mucous membranes once the party is over... It's a win-win! Hot, cold, moisturizing, it's up to you to choose which intimate lubricant to use for your masturbation sessions.

For internal stimulation, no question of sending your G-spot to absent subscribers! It's up to you alone to take care of this strategic vagina-clitoris contact point! With our G-spot orgasmic gel , we leave it to you alone to imagine your own caressing technique: in the internal zone of the bulbs with your ten fingers which are not penguins far from it or with our range of masturbators for women, stimulators of clitoris and sex toys for the G-spot.

Ladies, your clitoris is a pretty mountain for you alone to climb: touch it, caress it, twirl around it and, if you feel like it, draw an erotic alphabet of your dreams!  It's up to you alone to choose the rhythm that suits you. The sequel is magnificent: at the culmination of your pleasure, orgasm is pleasantly manifested by muscle spasms and by a sudden and extreme sensitivity of your whole body in a fleeting sexual pleasure: 20 … 30 seconds or even more of a happiness unheard of when the orgasm reaches its climax! 

At the peak of enjoyment ... ejaculation ... fountain or not ...  Whether your orgasm is clitoral or vaginal, it doesn't matter…. The most important thing is to have fun where it is! Everything is allowed in this female solo pleasure and it's called personal love in complete freedom . Taboo yesterday, female masturbation is a gift to yourself that you will enjoy for eternity! Women's natural curiosity to discover their own body with all its unsuspected riches by themselves does not need great talent, simply skill, only skill!  Alright ladies?  So good winds for the future in the heart of this sexual freedom where you have finally been able to find yourself a place of choice!

The benefits of female masturbation:
Pleasure as if it were raining!

The benefits of masturbation imagined, invented, implemented by the woman in full awareness of what she really is in her body and in her head are multiple:

  • It is also an excellent way to make up for the absence of a partner that the circumstances of life have not put in your way.
  • It is a very pleasant way to reduce too often intrusive stress , to considerably reduce nervous tension, usual sources in the couple of routine and often very ordinary conflicts which unnecessarily generate many slippages. Doing good to yourself in your most intimate area can only bring you personal relaxation and relief in your needs to live your sexuality to the full.
  • It is also a superb opportunity to discover your own body , to explore it from all angles and in its most secret corners in complete peace of mind without external constraints! At the end of this path so joyful to take, there is , it is acquired and it is for a long time, the absolute assurance of a homemade orgasm which will have nothing to envy to the one you may have . had elsewhere and in other adventures the chance to live with the partner of your choice. What does it matter! 

One last information and it comes from the medical field: A recent study carried out by the brands Womanizer and Lunacopinev with 500 people shows that regular masturbation would tangibly reduce the intensity of menstrual pain . And this after only three months of regular masturbation for 70% of the women questioned.

For the comfort of your clitoris and the pleasure of your mucous membranes,
test the special YESforLOV products for female masturbation

With its orgasmic gel for the clitoris , your mucous membranes will be pampered and terribly excited: it is soft, natural.
In tandem, his friend, the “LOVTouch” clitoral stimulator ! 

With its vaginal arousal gel , your G-spot will be inflated: It is powerful and effective.
In tandem, his friend, the “Sundaze” sex toy

And always at the heart of your intimacy, the YESforLOV moisturizing intimate lubricant , an intimate gel of excellence, natural based on water and moisturizing cosmetic active ingredients. 

Our ladies masturbate in their little corner or in front of their spouses? Where is the problem ? They are quite right to do it out of pure personal physical necessity and for many other desires... The stigmata of onanism, this intimate physical and mental pleasure alone, in pairs or with others, confined for too long in the dark columns of prohibitions end up being erased by the magic of time which gradually erases excesses and misunderstandings of all kinds and on all sides.  What a revolution indeed to see more and more women finally enjoying their freedom of expression...  without submission!  Sections of decades of prohibitions and taboos have gone up in smoke for good! The straitjacket of injustice in the right of women to live their lives as they wish is finally broken forever! 

“Les Orchidées Rouges”: International NGO of free women. £
“Joycelyn Elders”: African-American, endocrinologist for her progressive approaches to human sexuality.
“Terrafemina” (Pauline Machado): To have a multiple orgasm.