Pleasant sensation directly linked to the personal satisfaction of a satisfied desire or an unacknowledged need, pleasure , a little silent by nature, is very often carnal or sexual and orgasm is the physiological outcome. Education and physiology cleverly mixed, there can be no fair price in our earthly race for carnal pleasure and love since we are not all equal at birth. It is a human and unjustified defeat that we must however accept with great bitterness at times.
First joyful but unavoidable observation : the genitals and the erogenous zones in men are mainly external and therefore the proper learning of one's own sexuality and by extension, of one's personal pleasure (alone or not) is not insurmountable.
Second observation , just as joyful but still as circumventable: a good part of the erogenous zones in women are located – what a miracle! – outside her body, her clitoris being the conductor for life. The vagina, on the other hand, touchy by nature, is all inside. It is quite obvious that discovering one's sexuality by chance or out of curiosity is first and foremost a matter of the unknown. Our mind therefore has its role to play in this game of love and it is essential. The nascent desires and the pleasures to follow end up coming together in the happiest way possible, in the right place and at the right time, even if they still have to cross invisible and formidable psychological barriers... The pleasure felt is the business of each and depends on his intimate tools which are our astonishing nervous and erogenous endings which are sometimes necessary, and outside modesty! Go furiously activate without qualms to overcome unpredictable adversity. There is therefore no need to feel guilty for having to accompany our sexual stimulation if necessary at our convenience, the usual mechanics often giving way to beautiful images that are much more meaningful!